By A. Santiago / Ordained Minister / Universal Life Church
Hebrews 13:4 ESV / 111 helpful votes
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
1 Corinthians 7:1-40 ESV / 80 helpful votes
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. …
1 Corinthians 6:18 ESV / 80 helpful votes
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
Genesis 2:24 ESV / 71 helpful votes
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
1 Corinthians 7:2 ESV / 52 helpful votes
But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
1 John 1:9 ESV / 51 helpful votes
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Ephesians 5:5 ESV / 49 helpful votes
For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.
Galatians 5:19 ESV / 48 helpful votes
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality,
1 Thessalonians 5:22 ESV / 44 helpful votes
Abstain from every form of evil.
John 4:16-18 ESV / 42 helpful votes
Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.” The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.”
Acts 15:20 ESV / 37 helpful votes
But should write to them to abstain from the things polluted by idols, and from sexual immorality, and from what has been strangled, and from blood.
Romans 7:1-25 ESV / 35 helpful votes
Or do you not know, brothers—for I am speaking to those who know the law—that the law is binding on a person only as long as he lives? For a married woman is bound by law to her husband while he lives, but if her husband dies she is released from the law of marriage. Accordingly, she will be called an adulteress if she lives with another man while her husband is alive. But if her husband dies, she is free from that law, and if she marries another man she is not an adulteress. Likewise, my brothers, you also have died to the law through the body of Christ, so that you may belong to another, to him who has been raised from the dead, in order that we may bear fruit for God. For while we were living in the flesh, our sinful passions, aroused by the law, were at work in our members to bear fruit for death. …
Matthew 19:9 ESV / 31 helpful votes
And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
John 3:16-17 ESV / 30 helpful votes
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.
1 Timothy 5:8 ESV / 29 helpful votes
But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
1 Corinthians 6:13 ESV / 28 helpful votes
“Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food”—and God will destroy both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.
Luke 16:18 ESV / 28 helpful votes
“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.
Ephesians 5:3 ESV / 25 helpful votes
But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.
1 Corinthians 10:8 ESV / 23 helpful votes
We must not indulge in sexual immorality as some of them did, and twenty-three thousand fell in a single day.
1 Corinthians 7:11 ESV / 21 helpful votes
(but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.
John 3:16 ESV / 19 helpful votes
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.
Jude 1:7 ESV / 18 helpful votes
Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding cities, which likewise indulged in sexual immorality and pursued unnatural desire, serve as an example by undergoing a punishment of eternal fire.
Colossians 3:5 ESV / 18 helpful votes
Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.
1 Corinthians 7:32 ESV / 17 helpful votes
I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord.
Romans 12:2 ESV / 17 helpful votes
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Acts 5:29 ESV / 17 helpful votes
But Peter and the apostles answered, “We must obey God rather than men.
Proverbs 14:12 ESV / 17 helpful votes
There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.
1 Corinthians 7:8 ESV / 16 helpful votes
To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am.
1 Corinthians 6:9-11 ESV / 16 helpful votes
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
1 Corinthians 7:8-9 ESV / 15 helpful votes
To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
1 Corinthians 5:1 ESV / 15 helpful votes
It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that is not tolerated even among pagans, for a man has his father’s wife.
1 Corinthians 7:34 ESV / 14 helpful votes
And his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband.
1 Corinthians 7:15 ESV / 14 helpful votes
But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace.
Revelation 21:8 ESV / 13 helpful votes
But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”
1 Thessalonians 4:3 ESV / 13 helpful votes
For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality;
2 Corinthians 12:21 ESV / 13 helpful votes
I fear that when I come again my God may humble me before you, and I may have to mourn over many of those who sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual immorality, and sensuality that they have practiced.
1 Corinthians 7:1 ESV / 13 helpful votes
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”
John 4:17 ESV / 13 helpful votes
The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’;
Mark 10:12 ESV / 13 helpful votes
And if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery.”
Matthew 16:24 ESV / 13 helpful votes
Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.
Colossians 2:1-23 ESV / 12 helpful votes
For I want you to know how great a struggle I have for you and for those at Laodicea and for all who have not seen me face to face, that their hearts may be encouraged, being knit together in love, to reach all the riches of full assurance of understanding and the knowledge of God’s mystery, which is Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge. I say this in order that no one may delude you with plausible arguments. For though I am absent in body, yet I am with you in spirit, rejoicing to see your good order and the firmness of your faith in Christ. …
Revelation 1:1-20 ESV / 11 helpful votes
The revelation of Jesus Christ, which God gave him to show to his servants the things that must soon take place. He made it known by sending his angel to his servant John, who bore witness to the word of God and to the testimony of Jesus Christ, even to all that he saw. Blessed is the one who reads aloud the words of this prophecy, and blessed are those who hear, and who keep what is written in it, for the time is near. John to the seven churches that are in Asia: Grace to you and peace from him who is and who was and who is to come, and from the seven spirits who are before his throne, and from Jesus Christ the faithful witness, the firstborn of the dead, and the ruler of kings on earth. To him who loves us and has freed us from our sins by his blood …
2 Timothy 1:7 ESV / 11 helpful votes
For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.
Ephesians 5:22-33 ESV / 11 helpful votes
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, …
Galatians 5:19-21 ESV / 11 helpful votes
Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 7:39 ESV / 11 helpful votes
A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:37 ESV / 11 helpful votes
But whoever is firmly established in his heart, being under no necessity but having his desire under control, and has determined this in his heart, to keep her as his betrothed, he will do well.
1 Corinthians 7:27 ESV / 11 helpful votes
Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be free. Are you free from a wife? Do not seek a wife.
1 Corinthians 7:1-2 ESV / 11 helpful votes
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
Romans 12:1-2 ESV / 11 helpful votes
I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
John 10:10 ESV / 11 helpful votes
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.
Luke 20:9 ESV / 11 helpful votes
And he began to tell the people this parable: “A man planted a vineyard and let it out to tenants and went into another country for a long while.
Ephesians 5:1-33 ESV / 10 helpful votes
Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints. Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving. For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. …
1 Corinthians 6:18-20 ESV / 10 helpful votes
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.
Matthew 19:9-12 ESV / 10 helpful votes
And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.” The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” But he said to them, “Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given. For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it.”
Matthew 6:33 ESV / 10 helpful votes
But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
Matthew 5:27-28 ESV / 10 helpful votes
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
2 Corinthians 5:17 ESV / 9 helpful votes
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.
1 Corinthians 7:7 ESV / 9 helpful votes
I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another.
Matthew 19:4-6 ESV / 9 helpful votes
He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”
Malachi 2:16 ESV / 9 helpful votes
“For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”
Proverbs 4:23 ESV / 9 helpful votes
Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 ESV / 8 helpful votes
For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor,
Galatians 2:20 ESV / 8 helpful votes
I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.
1 Corinthians 7:26 ESV / 8 helpful votes
I think that in view of the present distress it is good for a person to remain as he is.
1 Corinthians 7:5 ESV / 8 helpful votes
Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Romans 7:17 ESV / 8 helpful votes
So now it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me.
Luke 1:37 ESV / 8 helpful votes
For nothing will be impossible with God.”
Proverbs 6:32 ESV / 8 helpful votes
He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself.
Psalm 23:4 ESV / 8 helpful votes
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
Ephesians 6:1-4 ESV / 7 helpful votes
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Jeremiah 29:11 ESV / 7 helpful votes
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
2 Timothy 2:22 ESV / 6 helpful votes
So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.
1 Corinthians 7:33 ESV / 6 helpful votes
But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife,
1 Corinthians 7:9 ESV / 6 helpful votes
But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
1 Corinthians 7:3 ESV / 6 helpful votes
The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.
Romans 7:23 ESV / 6 helpful votes
But I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members.
Romans 7:2 ESV / 6 helpful votes
For a married woman is bound by law to her husband while he lives, but if her husband dies she is released from the law of marriage.
1 Corinthians 7:36 ESV / 5 helpful votes
If anyone thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his betrothed, if his passions are strong, and it has to be, let him do as he wishes: let them marry—it is no sin.
1 Corinthians 6:1-20 ESV / 5 helpful votes
When one of you has a grievance against another, does he dare go to law before the unrighteous instead of the saints? Or do you not know that the saints will judge the world? And if the world is to be judged by you, are you incompetent to try trivial cases? Do you not know that we are to judge angels? How much more, then, matters pertaining to this life! So if you have such cases, why do you lay them before those who have no standing in the church? I say this to your shame. Can it be that there is no one among you wise enough to settle a dispute between the brothers, …
1 Corinthians 5:9-10 ESV / 5 helpful votes
I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people— not at all meaning the sexually immoral of this world, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world.
Matthew 5:28 ESV / 5 helpful votes
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Isaiah 3:1-26 ESV / 5 helpful votes
For behold, the Lord God of hosts is taking away from Jerusalem and from Judah support and supply, all support of bread, and all support of water; the mighty man and the soldier, the judge and the prophet, the diviner and the elder, the captain of fifty and the man of rank, the counselor and the skillful magician and the expert in charms. And I will make boys their princes, and infants shall rule over them. And the people will oppress one another, every one his fellow and every one his neighbor; the youth will be insolent to the elder, and the despised to the honorable. …
Psalm 23:1-6 ESV / 5 helpful votes
A Psalm of David. The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. …
Exodus 20:14 ESV / 5 helpful votes
“You shall not commit adultery.
1 Corinthians 7:38 ESV / 4 helpful votes
So then he who marries his betrothed does well, and he who refrains from marriage will do even better.
1 Corinthians 7:12 ESV / 4 helpful votes
To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her.
1 Corinthians 7:6 ESV / 4 helpful votes
Now as a concession, not a command, I say this.
1 Corinthians 7:4 ESV / 4 helpful votes
For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 ESV / 4 helpful votes
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 6:9 ESV / 4 helpful votes
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
Romans 7:4 ESV / 4 helpful votes
Likewise, my brothers, you also have died to the law through the body of Christ, so that you may belong to another, to him who has been raised from the dead, in order that we may bear fruit for God.
Psalm 91:1-16 ESV / 4 helpful votes
He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say to the Lord, “My refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.” For he will deliver you from the snare of the fowler and from the deadly pestilence. He will cover you with his pinions, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness is a shield and buckler. You will not fear the terror of the night, nor the arrow that flies by day, …
Esther 2:1-23 ESV / 4 helpful votes
After these things, when the anger of King Ahasuerus had abated, he remembered Vashti and what she had done and what had been decreed against her. Then the king’s young men who attended him said, “Let beautiful young virgins be sought out for the king. And let the king appoint officers in all the provinces of his kingdom to gather all the beautiful young virgins to the harem in Susa the capital, under custody of Hegai, the king’s eunuch, who is in charge of the women. Let their cosmetics be given them. And let the young woman who pleases the king be queen instead of Vashti.” This pleased the king, and he did so. Now there was a Jew in Susa the citadel whose name was Mordecai, the son of Jair, son of Shimei, son of Kish, a Benjaminite, …
1 Corinthians 7:10 ESV / 3 helpful votes
To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband
1 Corinthians 6:11 ESV / 3 helpful votes
And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
Isaiah 1:1-31 ESV / 3 helpful votes
The vision of Isaiah the son of Amoz, which he saw concerning Judah and Jerusalem in the days of Uzziah, Jotham, Ahaz, and Hezekiah, kings of Judah. Hear, O heavens, and give ear, O earth; for the Lord has spoken: “Children have I reared and brought up, but they have rebelled against me. The ox knows its owner, and the donkey its master’s crib, but Israel does not know, my people do not understand.” Ah, sinful nation, a people laden with iniquity, offspring of evildoers, children who deal corruptly! They have forsaken the Lord, they have despised the Holy One of Israel, they are utterly estranged. Why will you still be struck down? Why will you continue to rebel? The whole head is sick, and the whole heart faint. …
Proverbs 1:1-33 ESV / 3 helpful votes
The proverbs of Solomon, son of David, king of Israel: To know wisdom and instruction, to understand words of insight, to receive instruction in wise dealing, in righteousness, justice, and equity; to give prudence to the simple, knowledge and discretion to the youth— Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance, …
Ephesians 5:2 ESV / 2 helpful votes
And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
1 Corinthians 7:16 ESV / 2 helpful votes
For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife.
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There’s no magic formula to cure a broken heart, that’s for sure. On the flip side, there isn’t a love potion that I know of that’s going to make someone fall for you.
What you can do is increase the odds you will get the girl you want by following these expert and practically proven tips.
HOW TO MAKE A GIRL FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU
1. OPEN YOUR EARS
Girls like a man that’s going to listen to their problems and when you open your ears and let them talk, you are one step up on any other guy in pursuit. Make sure you don’t push her to make a decision. She just wants you to listen so she can work it out.
Of course if she asks for your advice, you should give it. Just make sure you aren’t pushing too hard with it or she’ll close the door fast.
2. GIVE HER COMPLIMENTS
Who doesn’t like a nice compliment now and then? Just please don’t give her fake praise or she will kick your butt to the curb fast. Make sure the compliment is genuine and sincere and not too deep.
If you overdo it, I can guarantee this pointer will backfire big time.
Flatter her a little and she will reward you handsomely.
3. SUPPORT HER ROYALLY
Think of this like you might a cheerleader. You need to show her you will be there to encourage her on and support her in her daily battles. This doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything she does and says, that would make you a pushover puppet.
However, you should show her you appreciate and respect her for her life choices. That’s just plain magical in the dating game.
4. DON’T BE AFRAID TO PLAY THE CHIVALRY CARD
This is where you are going to capture her attention and rock her world. Too many guys today seem to forget their manners. When you treat a lady properly, it will never ever go out of style.
Open the door for her. Pull out her chair. Give her your coat on a chilly evening.
When you show her she’s worth being treated specially, you will be squeezing your way into her heart for all the right reasons. Give it a shot! You’ve got nothing to lose.
5. GIVE HER ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION
I know this one isn’t so easy considering the technology we’ve got to our fingertips. If you are serious about showing this girl you deserve to have her fall in love with you, then you need to keep all eyes on her.
This means putting your phone away and definitely not watching other girls walk into the room.
You will come across as a prick if you can’t give her your full attention. The choice is yours.
6. TELL HER HOW MUCH YOU ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH HER
This can come in all sorts of different shapes and forms. You can tell her face to face that you really enjoy hanging out with her. Another route is to drop her a text or email to make sure she knows that she’s on your mind.
Or you can drop her a line on social media. You just want to make it crystal clear that you like being with her. She needs to know that if you are going to be successful making her fall in love with you.
7. NURTURE THE LOVE
You need to stand out and in order to do this, you’ve got to take care of the little things. Give her flowers or some sort of surprise just because. Don’t wait until a special occasion to show her how you feel.
This will help to make her feel loved and appreciated and that’s a direct route to making her fall in love with you. End of story.
8. MR. CLEAN IS A GOOD THING
Truth be told, if you are leaving your dirty socks on the floor and the sink filled with your dishes, you are killing the romance.
Girls like it clean and that means you need to make every effort to clean up after yourself and not leave it to her, no matter what she says.
You should know by now that girls say one thing and mean another more often than not.
Like it or lump it because that’s just the way it is.
9. MUSIC MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER
There’s just something about a man that sings. Girls go crazy over it. Guess there’s just something about a bad boy rock star. This doesn’t mean you have to be a rocker to get a girl. But if you’ve got some singing skills in your back pocket, that’s a good thing.
If not, just show her you are passionate in some other genre. Passion is perfect when combined with love.
10. FUNNY IS IN
When you show a girl you can be light hearted and funny, you are one step closer to getting her walls down so you can jump in.
Laughter is the best medicine and when you show a girl you can be funny, or at least try, you will get into her heart and mind fast.
So let loose and get a little silly if you are serious about getting the girl for keeps.
11. PLAY IT COOL
The very last thing a girl wants is a high strung man that just can’t play it cool. If you show her you’ve got the innate ability to diffuse spicy situations and shrug off the small things, you are going to show her straight up she’d be crazy not to fall in love with you.
Just trust me on this one please.
12. CONNECT WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
You are certified crazy if you don’t think this girls friends and family aren’t going to influence her decision to open up to you or not.
If you can get in the good books with her loved ones, she will get the encouragement she needs to fall in love with you.
Let her family and friends work for you in your quest. Having an outside source tell you that you should be with a guy really is magical.
13. KEEP IT POSITIVE
If you don’t have anything nice to say about her friends and family, make sure you keep it to yourself. One of the worst things you can do is dish the people she loves and is connected with.
Negativity gets you nowhere fast, just saying.
14. STEP AWAY FROM TIME TO TIME
The last thing you want to do is show this special girl that you have nothing but her. That makes you out to be needy and insecure and that’s definitely not what you want.
Sure, it’s important that you show her she is special to you. But you don’t need to make her your everything just yet. Take the time to hang out with other people and that alone will make her fall hard for you.
That just forces her to work for your attention and that’s needed in the relationship world.
15. SLOW AND STEADY DOES WIN THE RACE
Life is often way too fast. We are always so busy wanting to do more in less time. Take a step back from time to time and slow the pace. Turn the music up and give her a slow dance whenever you feel the urge.
That’s just romantically thoughtful and she will love it on every level.
16. TIMING IS VITAL
When you are on time, you are showing her that you respect her time. Just don’t show up late for a date, no matter what. Of course there are the inevitable that pop up and make it pretty much impossible for you to be on time, but they should be the exception to the rules.
Do whatever it takes to make sure you are punctual and that magic will unfold.
17. FAMILY IS VIP
When you make the time to introduce her to your family, you are showing her that she is special to you. And when you are trying to make her fall in love with you, that’s golden.
Show her off to your family and be sure to treat your family with love and respect so she can see how you will treat her in the long run.
Makes perfect sense.
18. SURPRISES ARE MAGICAL
When you take the time to surprise her, you will win your way into her heart. Shoot her a message at work to let her know you are thinking about her. Leave her a voicemail or note in her purse to make her smile.
This just reiterates the fact you are a thoughtful man that deserves her attention.
19. BE CARING
This goes without saying but when she is feeling under the weather, you need to show her you’ll take care of her. Make her soup or bring her a box of Kleenex. Do whatever you need to in order to help her feel better quickly and get back on her feet.
This is the sort of thing that shows a girl it’s about time she fell in love. Hard and fast works.
20. TOP NOTCH HYGIENE
This one is a given. If you are serious about getting a girl to fall head over heels for you, then you need to make certain you never leave the house unless you are showered, shaved, and smelling like a million bucks.
21. START TALKING
It’s natural to feel nervous around a beautiful girl. Just chill! If you allow your anxiety to get the best of you, then you might as well write the love thing off now.
Drop your guard and muster up the courage to just go talk with her. Trust me, it will be appreciated.
22. SLIP PAST THE NASTY SHIELD
More often than not, a pretty woman is witchy first when a guy gives them a compliment. Think of it as a defensive shield that’s essential to keep the pricks out.
Think about it for a minute. When a girl is hit on by oodles of guys, she’s got to figure out a way to deflect them right?
Just turn up the charm and show her you are more interesting than all the other guys. She’ll bite if it’s meant to be.
23. CONNECT WITH HER ENTOURAGE
No doubt a woman’s friends will naturally protect her from any man they believe is bad news. This means if you are ugly, creepy or just plain rude, you don’t stand a chance.
So you’ve either got to get into the good books fast or bring some eye candy with you to keep them oogling. Cute guys should do the trick keeping them busy while you go in and at least get her number.
Time to step up to the plate and whack a homer if you really want to make that girl fall in love with you.
24. TAKE ACTION TO PLAY BOTH SIDES OF THE FENCE
This is a tough one to master but where there’s a will, there’s a way!
You need to both play hard to get and show her you like her. When you balance this tightrope perfectly, it will help you win the prize.
25. CREATE THE PERFECT TEXT
Be careful here because girls tend to naturally over analyze text messages. In other words, they put them under the microscope and often make them into more than they really are. You’ve got your work cut out for you.
Think of all the texts she gets each day and your focus is to make yours stand out. Open your mind and think outside the box. Keep it short and sweet and memorable. Do that and your headed in the right direction.
26. BECOME AN EXPERT IN HITTING BACK
No worries, I’m referring to texting. When your girl shoots you a text, you need to make every effort within reason, to send one right back to her. Think tennis here.
The length of your shot and the timing is critical. Pay attention to every shot you take if you want to end up winning the girl.
27. DIVE INTO THE ROMANCE
If you want a woman to love you, then you are going to have to show her. What better way than to take the time to create a super romantic date?
Think of what she likes and appreciates and build from there. Make sure there’s some flirting and fun and lots going on so boredom has zero chance of getting into the picture.
Nail this one and you’ll get to nail her too, if you haven’t already.
28. SET UP FOLLOWUPS
If you want to keep the love momentum rolling, you’re going to need to set up more dates. Don’t expect her to give it up or become totally comfortable with you until at a least the 3rd or 4th date.
In other words, you’ve got to work for it. And when you give her something to look forward to down the road, you are showing her you’ve got a vested interest in her and that’s magical.
Keep her busy and you are the only one she will have time to focus on. Need I say more?
29. GREAT LOVEMAKING IS ESSENTIAL
Of course this depends on where you are in building your relationship. Something you don’t ever want to forget is you need to make amazing love to her. This means lots of kissing and cuddling and not running out the door shortly after.
If you do that, you’ll make her feel cheap and used and there’s seriously no love in that scenario.
Slow and steady wins the race. The longer, the better.
30. BE PATIENT FOR “WHAT ARE WE?”
If you are serious about making this girl fall for you, she needs to be the one pushing to know where you stand. When she asks this question, it’s time to make sure you solidify the fact you are her boyfriend and you want to take your relationship to the next level.
Step by step you will get there if you play your cards right.
31. DEAL WITH HER IMPERFECTIONS
No matter how hot you think she is, everyone has imperfections. If she gets a little emotionally crazy, just deal with it. When she decides she doesn’t want to wear makeup, you better support her.
And no matter what, you are best to ignore your innate need to flirt with other women. Just don’t please.
This is a tough one for many guys because it makes you vulnerable and opens the door to possible rejection.
Usually, it’s the girl that says the L word first but not always.
Put it all out there and tell her you love her and she’s going to fall head over heels in love with you.
33. SHE’S GOT TO FEEL OUT OF CONTROL
If you want a woman to fall for you, then you need to gain the power hand in the relationship. Keep in mind if you are chasing her like a weak puppy, she will get bored with you fast.
You need to get her chasing you a little and your love will be golden.
34. ELUSIVE TAKES THE CAKE
The guy needs to be the one that starts and finishes communication. She needs to be the one reaching out to you and you can get back to her here and there.
Make sure she knows she isn’t your everything. But on the flip side, she still needs to feel important.
Be elusive but don’t overdo it. If you aren’t ever there for her, there’s no way she can fall in love with you.
35. BE MYSTERIOUS
You don’t have to answer every question she asks. In fact, when you are a little vague or mysterious, you are going to draw her in for more. When a girl’s curiosity is peaked, she will look for ways to peel your layers and gain more connection.
You can take it from here.
36. CREATE ADDICTION
When you can become her addiction or better yet obsession, you’ve just sealed the deal. Never forget that girls are great at playing the game so you need to be wary and cautious.
In order for you to create addiction, you need to drop off the radar from time to time and master the art of slipping back in unannounced.
37. CHALLENGING IS GOOD
We all like a challenge. Keep in mind, as humans, we always want what we don’t have. Use this to your advantage.
Don’t be afraid to challenge her and be a challenge. It will help you make her fall for you pronto.
When you are figuring out how to make a girl fall in love with you, there are oodles of factors to consider. Take each of these tips, tricks and pointers into consideration and follow her lead. Show her your confidence and create a plan to make her crazy about you.
You can do it.
Best of Luck!