By Alex Santiago
Love makes men weak! Turns a hard hearted man into a soft man.
If a man falls in love and is unable to get the soft heart, he’s not truly in love. When a man falls in love, he already starts envisioning spending the rest of his life with her. When a man truly falls in love, he is able to forgive the past faults of his partner and potentially the current faults in hopes of his vision coming true.
There are a lot of credited sources out there, proclaiming, the top ten or five things men look for in a women. Unfortunately, to break it to you! there is only two things men look for in women. One, beauty; seen through confidence and two, appreciation.
Most people wouldn’t understand number one, because no one has a clear definition of beauty, yes there is a written down definition but not everyone define beauty the same way. A journalist by the name Esther Honig asked to 27 artist, from 27 different countries to photoshop 1 photo and make it beautiful. At the end of her photoshop project “Before & After” what she received back were 27 different definitions of what beauty looked like from 27 different countries. Esther Honig project, proves that beauty isn’t subjective or objective instead its based upon the outer appearance, the amount of makeup a woman decides to wears or the amount of skin she chooses to reveals or not reveal.
It’s like saying a person’s resume will always guarantee a great job, when in reality a resume only serves to get the applicant through the door for an an interview. Another way to look at it is, Sometimes the best applicant “person to date” isn’t the best person to be in a relationship with. I would like to make it clear, I do not believe the main component to a woman’s beauty should be based upon the kind or amount of make up she decides to wear on a particular hour in a given day.
Yes, appreciation! A woman that is able to show as much interest and appreciation in a man, as the man is showing to the woman, or vice versa, now that’s a woman to keep. Men are simple creatures, if they say something is one way, they mean it, but if they hesitate on a particular issue or topic that means that aren’t sure and need more time to process.
I am fully aware in any given relationship there is always one person that tends to like the other person more; sometimes over appreciation causes a great relationship to end, no one should be punished for showing to much appreciation especially if two parties agree to be in a relationship and also agree to having identical feelings towards each other. But Thats a blog for a different day.
Love will always make a men weak, they will never admit it but they know it’s true.
I’m a vivid example. I almost loose my senses for a woman that just wants me to have her body but not her heart.
If you are dating a woman be sure about what she really wants from you. She might want just sex but not love. If this is your case, fall in love with such kind of woman will only take you to a heart breaking end. But if you really want her you need to play her game without getting hurt. Don’t give in the process your 💓 heart. Take my advice!