There’s no magic formula to cure a broken heart, that’s for sure. On the flip side, there isn’t a love potion that I know of that’s going to make someone fall for you.
What you can do is increase the odds you will get the girl you want by following these expert and practically proven tips.
HOW TO MAKE A GIRL FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU
1. OPEN YOUR EARS
Girls like a man that’s going to listen to their problems and when you open your ears and let them talk, you are one step up on any other guy in pursuit. Make sure you don’t push her to make a decision. She just wants you to listen so she can work it out.
Of course if she asks for your advice, you should give it. Just make sure you aren’t pushing too hard with it or she’ll close the door fast.
2. GIVE HER COMPLIMENTS
Who doesn’t like a nice compliment now and then? Just please don’t give her fake praise or she will kick your butt to the curb fast. Make sure the compliment is genuine and sincere and not too deep.
If you overdo it, I can guarantee this pointer will backfire big time.
Flatter her a little and she will reward you handsomely.
3. SUPPORT HER ROYALLY
Think of this like you might a cheerleader. You need to show her you will be there to encourage her on and support her in her daily battles. This doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything she does and says, that would make you a pushover puppet.
However, you should show her you appreciate and respect her for her life choices. That’s just plain magical in the dating game.
4. DON’T BE AFRAID TO PLAY THE CHIVALRY CARD
This is where you are going to capture her attention and rock her world. Too many guys today seem to forget their manners. When you treat a lady properly, it will never ever go out of style.
Open the door for her. Pull out her chair. Give her your coat on a chilly evening.
When you show her she’s worth being treated specially, you will be squeezing your way into her heart for all the right reasons. Give it a shot! You’ve got nothing to lose.
5. GIVE HER ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION
I know this one isn’t so easy considering the technology we’ve got to our fingertips. If you are serious about showing this girl you deserve to have her fall in love with you, then you need to keep all eyes on her.
This means putting your phone away and definitely not watching other girls walk into the room.
You will come across as a prick if you can’t give her your full attention. The choice is yours.
6. TELL HER HOW MUCH YOU ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH HER
This can come in all sorts of different shapes and forms. You can tell her face to face that you really enjoy hanging out with her. Another route is to drop her a text or email to make sure she knows that she’s on your mind.
Or you can drop her a line on social media. You just want to make it crystal clear that you like being with her. She needs to know that if you are going to be successful making her fall in love with you.
7. NURTURE THE LOVE
You need to stand out and in order to do this, you’ve got to take care of the little things. Give her flowers or some sort of surprise just because. Don’t wait until a special occasion to show her how you feel.
This will help to make her feel loved and appreciated and that’s a direct route to making her fall in love with you. End of story.
8. MR. CLEAN IS A GOOD THING
Truth be told, if you are leaving your dirty socks on the floor and the sink filled with your dishes, you are killing the romance.
Girls like it clean and that means you need to make every effort to clean up after yourself and not leave it to her, no matter what she says.
You should know by now that girls say one thing and mean another more often than not.
Like it or lump it because that’s just the way it is.
9. MUSIC MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER
There’s just something about a man that sings. Girls go crazy over it. Guess there’s just something about a bad boy rock star. This doesn’t mean you have to be a rocker to get a girl. But if you’ve got some singing skills in your back pocket, that’s a good thing.
If not, just show her you are passionate in some other genre. Passion is perfect when combined with love.
10. FUNNY IS IN
When you show a girl you can be light hearted and funny, you are one step closer to getting her walls down so you can jump in.
Laughter is the best medicine and when you show a girl you can be funny, or at least try, you will get into her heart and mind fast.
So let loose and get a little silly if you are serious about getting the girl for keeps.
11. PLAY IT COOL
The very last thing a girl wants is a high strung man that just can’t play it cool. If you show her you’ve got the innate ability to diffuse spicy situations and shrug off the small things, you are going to show her straight up she’d be crazy not to fall in love with you.
Just trust me on this one please.
12. CONNECT WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
You are certified crazy if you don’t think this girls friends and family aren’t going to influence her decision to open up to you or not.
If you can get in the good books with her loved ones, she will get the encouragement she needs to fall in love with you.
Let her family and friends work for you in your quest. Having an outside source tell you that you should be with a guy really is magical.
13. KEEP IT POSITIVE
If you don’t have anything nice to say about her friends and family, make sure you keep it to yourself. One of the worst things you can do is dish the people she loves and is connected with.
Negativity gets you nowhere fast, just saying.
14. STEP AWAY FROM TIME TO TIME
The last thing you want to do is show this special girl that you have nothing but her. That makes you out to be needy and insecure and that’s definitely not what you want.
Sure, it’s important that you show her she is special to you. But you don’t need to make her your everything just yet. Take the time to hang out with other people and that alone will make her fall hard for you.
That just forces her to work for your attention and that’s needed in the relationship world.
15. SLOW AND STEADY DOES WIN THE RACE
Life is often way too fast. We are always so busy wanting to do more in less time. Take a step back from time to time and slow the pace. Turn the music up and give her a slow dance whenever you feel the urge.
That’s just romantically thoughtful and she will love it on every level.
16. TIMING IS VITAL
When you are on time, you are showing her that you respect her time. Just don’t show up late for a date, no matter what. Of course there are the inevitable that pop up and make it pretty much impossible for you to be on time, but they should be the exception to the rules.
Do whatever it takes to make sure you are punctual and that magic will unfold.
17. FAMILY IS VIP
When you make the time to introduce her to your family, you are showing her that she is special to you. And when you are trying to make her fall in love with you, that’s golden.
Show her off to your family and be sure to treat your family with love and respect so she can see how you will treat her in the long run.
Makes perfect sense.
18. SURPRISES ARE MAGICAL
When you take the time to surprise her, you will win your way into her heart. Shoot her a message at work to let her know you are thinking about her. Leave her a voicemail or note in her purse to make her smile.
This just reiterates the fact you are a thoughtful man that deserves her attention.
19. BE CARING
This goes without saying but when she is feeling under the weather, you need to show her you’ll take care of her. Make her soup or bring her a box of Kleenex. Do whatever you need to in order to help her feel better quickly and get back on her feet.
This is the sort of thing that shows a girl it’s about time she fell in love. Hard and fast works.
20. TOP NOTCH HYGIENE
This one is a given. If you are serious about getting a girl to fall head over heels for you, then you need to make certain you never leave the house unless you are showered, shaved, and smelling like a million bucks.
21. START TALKING
It’s natural to feel nervous around a beautiful girl. Just chill! If you allow your anxiety to get the best of you, then you might as well write the love thing off now.
Drop your guard and muster up the courage to just go talk with her. Trust me, it will be appreciated.
22. SLIP PAST THE NASTY SHIELD
More often than not, a pretty woman is witchy first when a guy gives them a compliment. Think of it as a defensive shield that’s essential to keep the pricks out.
Think about it for a minute. When a girl is hit on by oodles of guys, she’s got to figure out a way to deflect them right?
Just turn up the charm and show her you are more interesting than all the other guys. She’ll bite if it’s meant to be.
23. CONNECT WITH HER ENTOURAGE
No doubt a woman’s friends will naturally protect her from any man they believe is bad news. This means if you are ugly, creepy or just plain rude, you don’t stand a chance.
So you’ve either got to get into the good books fast or bring some eye candy with you to keep them oogling. Cute guys should do the trick keeping them busy while you go in and at least get her number.
Time to step up to the plate and whack a homer if you really want to make that girl fall in love with you.
24. TAKE ACTION TO PLAY BOTH SIDES OF THE FENCE
This is a tough one to master but where there’s a will, there’s a way!
You need to both play hard to get and show her you like her. When you balance this tightrope perfectly, it will help you win the prize.
25. CREATE THE PERFECT TEXT
Be careful here because girls tend to naturally over analyze text messages. In other words, they put them under the microscope and often make them into more than they really are. You’ve got your work cut out for you.
Think of all the texts she gets each day and your focus is to make yours stand out. Open your mind and think outside the box. Keep it short and sweet and memorable. Do that and your headed in the right direction.
26. BECOME AN EXPERT IN HITTING BACK
No worries, I’m referring to texting. When your girl shoots you a text, you need to make every effort within reason, to send one right back to her. Think tennis here.
The length of your shot and the timing is critical. Pay attention to every shot you take if you want to end up winning the girl.
27. DIVE INTO THE ROMANCE
If you want a woman to love you, then you are going to have to show her. What better way than to take the time to create a super romantic date?
Think of what she likes and appreciates and build from there. Make sure there’s some flirting and fun and lots going on so boredom has zero chance of getting into the picture.
Nail this one and you’ll get to nail her too, if you haven’t already.
28. SET UP FOLLOWUPS
If you want to keep the love momentum rolling, you’re going to need to set up more dates. Don’t expect her to give it up or become totally comfortable with you until at a least the 3rd or 4th date.
In other words, you’ve got to work for it. And when you give her something to look forward to down the road, you are showing her you’ve got a vested interest in her and that’s magical.
Keep her busy and you are the only one she will have time to focus on. Need I say more?
29. GREAT LOVEMAKING IS ESSENTIAL
Of course this depends on where you are in building your relationship. Something you don’t ever want to forget is you need to make amazing love to her. This means lots of kissing and cuddling and not running out the door shortly after.
If you do that, you’ll make her feel cheap and used and there’s seriously no love in that scenario.
Slow and steady wins the race. The longer, the better.
30. BE PATIENT FOR “WHAT ARE WE?”
If you are serious about making this girl fall for you, she needs to be the one pushing to know where you stand. When she asks this question, it’s time to make sure you solidify the fact you are her boyfriend and you want to take your relationship to the next level.
Step by step you will get there if you play your cards right.
31. DEAL WITH HER IMPERFECTIONS
No matter how hot you think she is, everyone has imperfections. If she gets a little emotionally crazy, just deal with it. When she decides she doesn’t want to wear makeup, you better support her.
And no matter what, you are best to ignore your innate need to flirt with other women. Just don’t please.
This is a tough one for many guys because it makes you vulnerable and opens the door to possible rejection.
Usually, it’s the girl that says the L word first but not always.
Put it all out there and tell her you love her and she’s going to fall head over heels in love with you.
33. SHE’S GOT TO FEEL OUT OF CONTROL
If you want a woman to fall for you, then you need to gain the power hand in the relationship. Keep in mind if you are chasing her like a weak puppy, she will get bored with you fast.
You need to get her chasing you a little and your love will be golden.
34. ELUSIVE TAKES THE CAKE
The guy needs to be the one that starts and finishes communication. She needs to be the one reaching out to you and you can get back to her here and there.
Make sure she knows she isn’t your everything. But on the flip side, she still needs to feel important.
Be elusive but don’t overdo it. If you aren’t ever there for her, there’s no way she can fall in love with you.
35. BE MYSTERIOUS
You don’t have to answer every question she asks. In fact, when you are a little vague or mysterious, you are going to draw her in for more. When a girl’s curiosity is peaked, she will look for ways to peel your layers and gain more connection.
You can take it from here.
36. CREATE ADDICTION
When you can become her addiction or better yet obsession, you’ve just sealed the deal. Never forget that girls are great at playing the game so you need to be wary and cautious.
In order for you to create addiction, you need to drop off the radar from time to time and master the art of slipping back in unannounced.
37. CHALLENGING IS GOOD
We all like a challenge. Keep in mind, as humans, we always want what we don’t have. Use this to your advantage.
Don’t be afraid to challenge her and be a challenge. It will help you make her fall for you pronto.
When you are figuring out how to make a girl fall in love with you, there are oodles of factors to consider. Take each of these tips, tricks and pointers into consideration and follow her lead. Show her your confidence and create a plan to make her crazy about you.
You can do it.
Best of Luck!